Will you be successful? (Reflections)

Sometimes I feel that maybe "successful" could be the ability to have a relaxed mind at all the defining moments, being able to choose the right things and make good decisions, being there for your friends and family. Success could be being nice and caring enough to be able to make the important persons in your life feel important. It could be the abundance of laughter and togetherness of the person you value, to be able to smile and laugh when you want to do so. To be the reason behind your parent's happiness. Guess I took a long-winding of words rather than just arriving at the point that: Success to me is love, happiness and security. And now if I have to answer the question..... I never know but I will strive for it as long as I live.